I’m in my early 20s, in a role that pays well, and also pays for part of my university fees. The benefits overall are pretty good and I used to really like the work I do.
Unfortunately there’s been a lot of bullying going on lately. It’s been subtle things, like ignoring me and talking around me, or just generally excluding me and forgetting about me. I think I would have been ok if I could get help from the manager (it’s only a small office) but they seem to be in on it too. They’re very close to the people who have been isolating me. I try really hard not to care but I can’t imagine spending 8 hours in this environment anymore.
I’ve reduced my hours significantly because of how upsetting it’s been but I genuinely don’t know how long I can stay for. I don’t want to give up my benefits, and I know I work way less now so I’m not around these people that much, but even one day in this environment makes me cry at home.
I can’t tell what to do. Should I just stay in the job until I graduate in a few years, or should I leave even though I’ll probably miss out on great benefits and money?